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Tempura Shrimp Sushi Literature Club

There was nothing particularly special about today. I got up late, went to work, dealt with coworkers, and was at last allowed to come home.

It was then that the night turned into something special 💗💗

In truth there is nothing special about tonight, but it is special at the same time. I went out and got myself some Tempura Shrimp Sushi and Oh My God it was good! It was my first time trying Tempura Shrimp Sushi (why do I keep capitalizing it?) and I loved it! It was spicy, but not TOO spicy that I couldn't stand to eat it. Granted, that's a pretty hard thing to accomplish since I love spicy food and have a pretty high threshold for that kind of thing.

Now that I'm all showered and in my comfy Nightmare Before Christmas pajamas, I wrapped myself up in the heated blanket my mom gave me for Christmas and am watching Danny play "Doki Doki Literature Club" (expect a review once we finish!)

It's a normal night, although the part with the shrimp is unusual I guess,…
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